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Dear Nice Guy and Fuckboy,
I have been casually dating a guy for three months. He is absolutely the sweetest and we have a great time together. Our first date was 9 hours long and I met all his friends. Every date we go on, he makes it obvious that hes into me.
The only problems? Hes an awful texter, and so busy that we never see each other. Its gotten to the point where we speak once a week and see each other maybe once every two weeks.
I really like this guy, and was obviously getting frustrated that whatever was going on between us wasnt going anywhere. I texted him saying, I like you, but it doesntseem like youhave time for me. I fully expected him to write back agreeing, and then things would be over.
But he didnt. Instead, he wrote back saying that he wanted to see me again and made plans right away.
When we hung out, we talked about the text I sent him and he told me he was sorry and that he was just out of town and didnt even realize how much time had gone by. He told me not to try to get rid of him again and not to worry.
I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt, and I hoped he realized that he should really put moretime and effort into getting to know me and spending time together if he wanted this to go somewhere. But a few weeks have gone by and nothing has changed.
Were still having dumb, unengaging text conversations once a week, and hes still not trying to make any plans.
I feel stupid constantly being the one to initiate conversations, even though he always replies right away. I want to say he was more assertive in the beginning, but if hes lost interest, why did he tell me to not try to get rid of him again? Im prepared to move on, I just dont get why he kept leading me on if he doesnt want to talk or see me.
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